Sexuality isn't a matter of gathering evidence, it's about how you feel.
Don't get what all the fuss is about boys? Kissed a male mate just to see what it's like? Do you have a crush on someone the same sex as you? All these are signs that you could be gay. Or you could be 100% straight. Or somewhere in between.
Sexuality for some people is not clear cut - it's a spectrum. And wherever you sit on that spectrum is completely fine.
out your sexuality isn't a matter of gathering evidence, it's about how
you feel. It's normal to be sexually attracted to the same sex
sometimes - it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay.
But if you've
felt this way very strongly for a long time, you could be bisexual or
gay. Some people know from an early age, while others need to explore
and experiment to understand more about how they feel.
What's in a name?
Sexual orientation (or sexuality) is about who you have sexual feelings towards.
as a teenager, your sexual feelings can be very intense and it's
completely natural for your attention to jump between different people -
and different genders - quite frequently.
This can be confusing.
It can also be exciting. Enjoy and explore at your own pace. Sexuality
doesn't develop overnight, so don't be in too much of a hurry to put a
label on yours.
You're not alone
With six percent of the population defining themselves as gay you really aren't on your own, and it's likely that some of your friends are curious about the same things you are.